The other day I met a beautiful girl. She was well read, she was witty, she was ebullient, she was very fun to talk to you! It was because of these qualities that in about ten minutes into our conversation, my brain was screaming at me that she was an attractive person who I should pursue… sexually.
However, in the beginning of our conversation, she did tell me she had a boyfriend. But I didn’t care. My mind was on her and at the moment her boyfriend wasn’t important.
Also, though I told her my intentions“I find you very attractive” she stayed with me – she didn’t waver away from our our conversation. It was then I assumed she was attracted to me ,as I was attracted to her.
We started conversing about school, her mother, personal issues, relationships, and of course, sex. We were getting intimate: which made her even more attractive. Then, twenty minutes later, I don’t know. I cannot explain the feeling inside my soul. I went for the kiss.
I must admit I was a little aggressive with the attempt to kiss her. If I were to do it over again, I would ask her “would you like to kiss me…” which I think would’ve been a better / attractive move. Pushing my face into her was a really bad decision. My excuse is that I’m newly single… but that’ just an excuse.
When I went for the kiss she backed off and say, “No. Let’s not.” I stopped, put my hands up, and turned around. It was then that she said something that negatively tickled every bone in my body. She said, “I’m sorry.”
What? Why? This is what I want to talk about today. Women, girls, should stop saying sorry.